I thought I would address my style of doing things. As I've been writing these, I've realized that I have very bad skills when it comes to getting dirty and making kick-ass food, and simultaneously taking great photos, getting measurements, and explaining it all for you to possibly follow. The thing is, I get inspired by something I randomly read about, something I ate once, or a show I saw about cooking. When I'm on a mission to take on something new, I go online and read about 4 recipes and then make a list and make up the rest. With some things, like banana bread or quiche, you should probably follow stricter guidelines, but with pasta sauce, hummus or wontons, just always remember that you should taste what you do along the way, and have faith that what you do will be edible if not damn good!
All of these recipes are mostly a gloss over on what to do. Rarely have I ever had specifics on how much of certain things I should put in a dish. However, I have to say that it isn't hard if you just keep in mind what kind of proportions you should have in most of your food, you should be able to re-create a facsimile of what I do. Most of these things turn out pretty great. You might make too much of something or too little, but these are things you have to learn at some point if you cook. Just remember these things.
Always taste every part of what you do. When you make a filling for a wonton, taste it before you make them. Taste a batter before you fry with it. Test your soup before you ladle it out. I'm a firm believer that you should be able to provide people with food that is seasoned right, so that they won't have to bother with it.
Don't leave what you're cooking unless you can leave it for 20 minutes and it will still be okay. Soups are okay, grilled meats are not okay to leave while you go do laundry. My dad eats lots of burnt meat, toast, and drinks cold coffee because of a habit like this.
Make extra because if it's good, you'll want leftovers of it. Some things don't keep so well, so use judgment on this one.
Be ambitious. I've been trying to make pizza dough, hence my doughy love handles, but it's not that easy. I've used crazy flours, attempting to get wheat flower, white, semolina and flax to work, and I'm almost there, but it might take a few attempts. My next is baguettes, which I'm sure I'll screw up, but why not shoot for something I love to eat that I've never made before? You can only learn about the foods you love, and maybe you'll nail it and learn how easy it really is.
Be prepared in your kitchen. Give yourself space to cook. Put a good sized cutting board on the counter with a towel under it so it doesn't move. Get rid of appliances that take up space that you rarely use. Clear up that real estate so you can spread out, make a mess, and clean everything up.
Use great knives. I cannot stress this one enough. If someone gave you a set of 20 serrated knives in a big honking block of wood, donate the whole thing to Goodwill and buy yourself a few good knives that will last you until someone decides to cut cans in half. Get one good chopping knife, one Santoku, and a bread knife. Nothing with crazy claims to it, just steel and a good handle. Henkels are nice, Japanese alloys look great, and learn how to sharpen and use real knives. Don't worry about your kids. Those cheap-o serrated things showing up in kitchens everywhere are probably more dangerous to people than real steel any day. Then when you have them, act like every time you cook is practice for Iron Chef. Get the knife skills down and you'll be more confident and quicker at cooking than you were before when you used steak knives on plates or counter tops.
Other than that, be confident that when you're cooking most things, you can change them along the way. It's all about balance in the end and flavors are particular to certain people, while good food is almost always good to everyone. If you have a recipe, just throw in what you have. Use the cookbook as a reference, don't quote from it. Like I said, this goes for most things. Baking is more specific, but stove tops allow for improvisation, and it make cooking so much more fun when you get creative with it.
I've been looking through my files and I have this humongous backlog of images and recipes to impart to you males out there who want a fresh endeavor in the kitchen. So I'll keep these brief and try to get some things together. They won't be super professional, but then the domestic male doesn't have time to measure teaspoons all the time when he cooks. I'm not a chef, I'm an impromptu cook. According to Gordon Ramsey, and this I heard second hand on NPR, a chef makes recipes that he can teach to other people. A recipe that can be created and recreated with the same mastery under which it was conceived. As much as I feel that I champion the impromptu recipe, unfortunately, it is up to everyone out there to work with me, and to work with their recipe, to make the good food that I try to make when I cook.
The pan shown here is a collection of vegetables, peppers, tomatoes, chiles, onions, garlic; basically anything and everything I have on hand. Throw in a green onion, maybe some ginger. So I usually cook all of these veggies in a good amount of olive oil, maybe 4 tablespoons. The best way is to cook each one alone. Cook the garlic cloves whole, throw them in a blender. Add some jalapenos, throw them in the blender too. Add tomatoes, and when they're cooked, throw them in the blender. When you've cooked everything in the same oil, the oil takes on a rich flavor of everything that's been in it. Add some of this oil to the blender as well. Throw in a glug or two of honey, and some lime juice, salt and pepper. 
